Another child: I dare you to climb to the top of that tree.
Me: No thanks.
However,
Another child: Who thinks they could climb to the top of that tree?
Me: CHALLENGE ACCEPTED.
I would then try ineffectively to shimmy up a tree. I’d only manage to get one or two feet off the ground. I never had good gross-motor skills.
It wasn’t always physical challenges that prodded me to take on a challenge. There were academic challenges too.
Math teacher: Ok, it’s time to review our algebra homework.
Me: AAAAARRRGHHHH. Math is hard.
However,
Math teacher: Ok, here is an extra-credit algebra worksheet. You get 1 extra-credit point for each problem you answer correctly.
Me: I’ll take two, please.
Now, I was no great-shakes at math, but that’s besides the point. If you try to motivate me to achieve a goal by betting me I could never do it, well, you’d be right. If some one thinks I’m unable to accomplish something, and they tell me so, I have no desire to prove them wrong.
But if you simply present me with a lofty goal, I’ll rise to meet that challenge.
And sometimes I succeed.
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10 comments:
Interesting how that works. Pretty cool that you actually figured that out. I guess the next step is to figure out how to take full advantage of it.
@I've Become My Parents - I know. I think a lot of people like to prove people wrong. I guess I just want to show off on my own terms. Don't ask me how I figured this out.
I'm totally the opposite... if a challenge was presented, I wouldn't bother but if someone told me I couldn't... that's when I would kill myself to prove them wrong.
I was a wicked tomboy when I was younger and so I always felt the need to prove I could do anything they could do.. and I have the scars to prove it.
@chemgirl - I think a lot of people are the opposite. I'm not exactly sure why I'm different. Maybe it's just because I hate conflict. Good on you, though, for meeting all those challenges!! Scars only go to show what interesting lives we've had.
I think you're the first person I've ever come across who looks at it that way! We're all a bunch of competitive a-holes around here, and the quickest way to get someone to do something is to tell them they can't!
Oh, and algebra is AWESOME. :P
@mamamash - I know, I'm bizarro.
So, who thinks they can send me $100?
@Betty - If I had $100... no wait, I'll never have $100 ;)
Oh, I"ve always hated dares. I'm a baby.
@Mariana - I also hate practical jokes. I was no fun at a sleep-over party as a youth.
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